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Top tips for dating in Cape Town

One of the most interesting things about dating in Cape Town, especially within the city areas, is that there is a very diverse and eclectic blend of locals, South Africans from neighbouring cities such as Johannesburg, Durban, the Eastern Cape or Pretoria, not to mention long-term foreign visitors from all over the world – singles from Brazil, Ireland, America, Denmark and many other nationalities can all be found mingling with Cape Town singles, creating an interesting dating field with a lot of possibilities for those wanting to explore the Cape Town dating scene.

The non-locals will say how hard it is to break into the Cape Town dating scene, and that dating in Cape Town is difficult and almost impossible. However, with the right attitude, and the help of quality dating services, anyone in the Mother City can find love. Here are some top tips for mastering the dating scene in this vibrant city:

• Get out and meet as many people as you can

Contrary to popular belief, Cape Town is a friendly place with a wide range of cultures and backgrounds. The city is particularly interesting, and a cocktail at one of Long Street’s popular bars such as Neighbourhood, Zula or Cape to Cuba offers a chance to get a taste of the city’s single life, giving you a chance to make friends too, and meet people from Cape Town and all over the world. Another benefit of using a dating service is that it allows you to choose your own preferences – cutting out a lot of small talk and time wasting that the bar scene so often presents. Careful screening and matching gives you a good chance of meeting the type of single that suits your lifestyle, values and beliefs, making it more possible for you to find love.

• Remember that looks sometimes do matter

This doesn’t mean that regular guys and girls don’t stand a chance, but what it does mean is that in a city which has some of the most beautiful people on earth, grooming and effort plays a big role. Make the most of your good traits, look after yourself and try something new – a new hair colour perhaps, or a new look. Presenting our best versions of ourselves will help us feel more confident in the dating game, and will also help us feel ready and attractive for dating in Cape Town. Just don’t change who you are, or try and change too much at one – it’s more about enhancing your own natural looks than becoming someone else. Work with what you have, and you will shine!

• Step out of your comfort zone

You might have met someone interesting and potentially suitable on your dating site recently, and are now at that scary but exciting point… the first date. While the first date should ideally be something low-key and safe, such as coffee at a public restaurant, the second and third dates (should these seem right), can be more fun. Guys should plan something different, and ladies should step out of their comfort zones and try something new – hiking, go-kart racing, boat cruises or scooter rides are just some examples of fun options.

• Have fun

Cape Town is a beautiful city with plenty to see and do. Try not to take dating too seriously until you are ready to take things to the next level, and focus on meeting singles and enjoying yourself. Dating in Cape Town should be about having fun and enjoying life.

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